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The importance of a good name

Choosing Baby Names and Why You Need to Get it Right

Parents often spend ages selecting the right name for their offspring, which is good news in the light of recent research. The name you give your baby matters big time. Get it right, and you can influence whether your child fits in at school, is quick to learn, successful, and develops self-esteem. The name you give your baby will affect the traits they adopt as they mature.

Mothers and fathers instinctively understand the name they give their child says something to the world about their identity. Of course, babies need time to cultivate their persona, so their parents pick names they believe reflect the traits they want their offspring to develop. Research shows doing so is sensible. However, mistakes when it comes to selecting baby names can put kids at a disadvantage rather than give them a step up in life.

 

Social standing and prospects

You might imagine social status is not a consideration regarding your child's future success. However, studies reveal children's names can give away their economic status, and this has an impact on their education. Kids with names that sound as though parents with little schooling chose them rarely excel in the classroom. Indeed, they do worse than other children. The cause could be low expectations since less encouragement and attention might be given to them than to kids from wealthier backgrounds.

 

Self-image

Whether or not people like their name affects their self-esteem. If they dislike the way it sounds or the letters used to spell it, they may also dislike themselves. It's important you like the first letter of your name, and whether it sounds soft or hard, depending on the associations you make with such factors. If for instance, you associate soft sounding names with femininity, and you're a boy, you may want a different sounding name you can link with masculinity.

 

Gender and names

Boys with names conventionally given to females have more of a tendency to misbehave than those with masculine names. Possibly, they are bullied and act up as a way of proving their machismo to their peers. Girls with names regarded as predominantly male, on the other hand, may be more likely to specialize in science-based courses than their counterparts with feminine names, who select humanities.

 

Unusual names

Parents who want to help their kids stand out choose unique names for them, which may or may not be helpful. If the name selected is decidedly odd, a child's peers may poke fun at them. Also, names with unusual spellings influence their owner's reading and spelling abilities adversely. Being constantly questioned about whether they know how to spell their names correctly could confuse them and dampen their language skills. Then again, children with unusual names might be parented in ways that assist with uniqueness. Those with uncommon names may have mothers and fathers who encourage them to rise above the norm in a manner aiding success.

 

Growing into a name

Research shows people's names are often guessable because they look like a Tom, Susan, or another name. Most likely, people grow into their names predictably, depending on the society to which they belong. If Toms in Australia often have long golden hair, and that's where you live and what you name your baby, your child may adopt the hairstyle to match society's expectations as he matures. Does this matter? It might if Toms are also associated with adverse behavior, and your kid grows into that too.

 

You're right to take your time when picking a baby name; your child's future may be affected by your choice. Parents who regret the names they choose wish they had researched potential names beforehand and thought about the consequences of those selected. Bearing such considerations in mind will help you find the right name for your child.

 

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