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PostPosted: 05 Jan 2012 21:31 
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My husband and I have had 2 miscarriages and now we have been trying again for over 15 months with no luck. I am starting to get very discouraged and sad because I want a child so badly. I am 2 days late but I got a negative preg test yesterday, so I am bummed because my af is playing tricks on me. With the two I miscarried I got positive preg tests 4 days before af was even due, so I am sure I am not pregnant even though I want to be. Has anyone ever got a pos really early with one preg and took long on another preg to show up pos?


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 Post subject: Re: Getting discouraged
PostPosted: 05 Jan 2012 21:47 
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Fingers crossed for you that you get bfp soon. I haven't had any experience with what you describe but didn't want to read and run.
We tried for our first for almost 16 months and had even started down the route getting it all investigated. I ended up getting a laproscopy as was having really odd periods - on for 21 days off for 3 and then back again etc. We stopped trying for a while till I recovered, and lo and behold I became pregnant.
All the advice I can offer is to try and stop trying. Also maybe time to start gettng the drs to check out what is stopping from getting that bfp
Good luck chick. Hope 2012 is your year
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 Post subject: Re: Getting discouraged
PostPosted: 05 Jan 2012 21:49 
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Thanks for your reply, and the advice!


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 Post subject: Re: Getting discouraged
PostPosted: 05 Jan 2012 21:50 
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Hiya and welcome to the site :D

Hope you get your BFP soon, fingers crossed for you. I've never had any experience ttc and having problems. Sounds hard but sometimes it's better off to try and relax and not let ttc take over things.
Enjoy the baby making as they say :D

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 Post subject: Re: Getting discouraged
PostPosted: 05 Jan 2012 21:52 
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Yes, I do my best with just having fun and we do. It is just getting harder because I want a baby so badly and with having 2 miscarriages and now over a year with no luck its easier said then done :(


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 Post subject: Re: Getting discouraged
PostPosted: 05 Jan 2012 21:54 
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Teacher11 wrote:
Yes, I do my best with just having fun and we do. It is just getting harder because I want a baby so badly and with having 2 miscarriages and now over a year with no luck its easier said then done :(


Fingers crossed 2012 is your year.

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 Post subject: Re: Getting discouraged
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Teacher11 wrote:
Yes, I do my best with just having fun and we do. It is just getting harder because I want a baby so badly and with having 2 miscarriages and now over a year with no luck its easier said then done :(


I feel your pain hun, it must be so hard :(
I agree with the others about trying to relax, cos it is obviously getting to you (and understandably so). I am often told to 'stop trying' lol x

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