Hi girls/guys! Just been thinking to myself which i no is rather dangerous! Years ago i used to think Id have just 1 child but as time went on and i had my 1st i then thought to myself that id like another! So following my 2nd child im now indecisive!
How any children did you want to have, had or changed your mind about having lol!?
I had always said 3 or 4. I said that if I had a mix after 3 I would be happy, and even though I had a mix I was still very broody. Now that I have 2 of each, I am happy. I can finally see a time when they are all at school and I get some time to myself (after 11 years, by then).
I said no more after my first but after meeting my soul mate I now have 3 total......I think as a child being one (middle) of 3 girls, I always liked the idea of 3 so maybe this is why im here now with 3 beautiful boys
Joined: 01 May 2009 22:11 Posts: 894 Location: Nottingham
I've always wanted two or three... now I'm pregnant with my second I definitely only want two cos I'm not doing this again! I've already got Lucy and her brother will arrive with a 2 year 4 month gap - perfect
Joined: 29 Jun 2009 21:36 Posts: 8359 Location: South Shields - North East
Just got Lewis here and I cant see us having anymore. Hes 2 years 4 months now and has pretty much been no bother lol I love babies but love giving them back A lot of people say its nasty only having one because he will grow up a lonley child but I dont think he will.
I wanted 2 but not to be i have Louis and took us 11 years to have him and i also have people saying you can't only have one he will be lonely but Louis is very sociable and has a few friends and he's happy thats what counts