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PostPosted: 18 Nov 2010 13:37 
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Recently, in my local papers, they have featured a story of a man who is a registered childminder.
If you had to leave your child/ren with a childminder, would you consider a male childminder?
I personally wouldn't, although I'm sure he would give the children in his care good care, but a male childminder wouldn't appeal to me.


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PostPosted: 18 Nov 2010 21:44 
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hmmm im not really sure :?

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not sure I'd be confortable with it if it wasn't someone I knew but my dad looks after my boys on his own once a week and I could not have imagined how good he would have been at it - he has a real conection with the boys and its so sweet.

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PostPosted: 18 Nov 2010 22:09 
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I wouldn't consider a female builder if I ever needed a bulider, but I certainly would consider a male childminder, should I ever need a childminder.

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PostPosted: 18 Nov 2010 23:35 
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Its awful and sexist but no i wouldnt. Maybe in a nursery or playgroup setting but not in their home. I know they would still be disclosure checked, but its not something i would ever consider.


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PostPosted: 19 Nov 2010 08:16 
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If their references were the best of the bunch then yes. You only have to watch the news to realise that women can be just as evil with kids, even in a nursery where you think they are perfectly safe, I wouldn't hesitate in a male childminder, if I needed one (although hubby might disagree :lol:)
One of the most popular childminder's in Strathaven was a bloke, he retired last year tho'. He still dresses up for Santa for our school tho' and pops in to see how all his 'mindings' are doing every now and again.

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PostPosted: 19 Nov 2010 11:56 
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I think I'd have to say no. I know it's sexist & that, like Yvonne said, there are some evil women out there too, but I just wouldn't feel comfortable with it! Daft I know, but that's just the way I feel!!

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Jaidynsmum wrote:
If their references were the best of the bunch then yes. You only have to watch the news to realise that women can be just as evil with kids, even in a nursery where you think they are perfectly safe, I wouldn't hesitate in a male childminder, if I needed one (although hubby might disagree :lol:)
One of the most popular childminder's in Strathaven was a bloke, he retired last year tho'. He still dresses up for Santa for our school tho' and pops in to see how all his 'mindings' are doing every now and again.

I have seen him up the centre Yvonne and he is brilliant. He takes the kids for a scone and expects them all to clean their space up after them. I dont have an issue with it tbh - you get male teachers, support staff in school and nursery staff so why not childminder. Best person for the job, I would use a female builder if she was the best
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fiffes wrote:
Jaidynsmum wrote:
If their references were the best of the bunch then yes. You only have to watch the news to realise that women can be just as evil with kids, even in a nursery where you think they are perfectly safe, I wouldn't hesitate in a male childminder, if I needed one (although hubby might disagree :lol:)
One of the most popular childminder's in Strathaven was a bloke, he retired last year tho'. He still dresses up for Santa for our school tho' and pops in to see how all his 'mindings' are doing every now and again.

I have seen him up the centre Yvonne and he is brilliant. He takes the kids for a scone and expects them all to clean their space up after them. I dont have an issue with it tbh - you get male teachers, support staff in school and nursery staff so why not childminder. Best person for the job, I would use a female builder if she was the best
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Ian's fab, he has more energy than me! He used to race the kids down the path to the nursery and then race them back to the car!!

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hmm...not too sure, would have no hesistation with a family member or family friend but someone I don't really know....hmmm :s x x

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