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PostPosted: 26 Apr 2011 13:00 
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Im not sleeping and the stress is getting so immense that i feel like im losing the plot.

The build up to Ryan's op is really starting to take it out of me. Im taking it out on everyone, especially dp as he is so laid back that if he cold float he would float away ( i wish !)

Im trying to sort out clothing as everything has to be cut all the way down the left leg then stuck back with Velcro, including pants, pj's, school trousers shorts etc Then ive got to sort out who is having the other kids - which inturn varies on who is visiting when :roll: im staying with ryan while he is in so need to sort my stuff out too... OMG the list goes on :(

On top of this trying to organise school ( who slowly are coming round to him going back), physio, OT's , equipment for the house etc

Why is it always the mum who has to juggle everything ?

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PostPosted: 26 Apr 2011 13:09 
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well done you for being so strong :) us mums are the ones who do it all cos many blokes would have given up a long time ago and walked away so its the mums (and a few dads)who always stay strong and get the job done no matter what hurdles are put in our way.... stay strong and remember that its all worth it when you and your children are happy and healthy :D

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 Post subject: Re: feeling so down
PostPosted: 26 Apr 2011 15:14 
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Just wanted to send (((hugs))) - you really do sound like you've got a lot on your plate. You will get there hon, one job at a time. I think you're doing amazing - I have days when I want to scream and snap and it's just me and the kids. Best of luck getting there - is there anything you can delegate?


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 Post subject: Re: feeling so down
PostPosted: 26 Apr 2011 16:54 
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Hugs hun <3

The reason it's left to the moms is because otherwise we would only stress that something had been left out or not done properly! At least if we do everything ourselves then we know it's all done & done properly! :lol:

It sounds very stressful for you. I hope you manage to sort everything out in time & then you can concentrate on your big boy getting better xxx

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 Post subject: Re: feeling so down
PostPosted: 26 Apr 2011 21:09 
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I was just about to write the same! Us Mums do everything because we know that it will be done properly!

You are bound to be worrying about your little mans operation, that is perfectly natural and then adding all of the other stress on top must be making things really hard.
I hope that you can get everything sorted quickly x


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PostPosted: 04 May 2011 22:06 
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Huge Hugs.
Like the others have said us moms now whats best...

you will get through it all chick.. :) <3

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