thanks for all your advice... hes having the settle in period for 2 weeks before he starts which will help.. they seem really nice there and i am happy hes going it will be good for him to be with other children his age and it might even make him tired hes very enegytic lol. ill just have to suck it up and lern to leave him, im starting to think its me thats going to be more upset then him.
Most of the time it is the mothers who are more upset, once he settles into the new environment, makes some friends and gets attached to the building he will be fine. When i returned to work when my little girl was 9 months i felt terrible (she goes to my mums for the 2 days i work) My first day i basically flew back to my mums expecting lacey to be upset and to miss me, i needed to drag her away from all the toys at my mums house! It will be really good for him playing with other kiddies and it will make your life easier as he wont be clingy to you as much xx