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Author:  EMMARED [ 09 Dec 2011 19:44 ]
Post subject:  Iam a bit disturbed by this...

Lilli has just told me that a boy in her class made her go into the toilet today and told her to sit on his face
I said what? Why did he say that? Did you do it?
she said Yes!!!

Why would a 5 year old boy ask a 5 year old girl to do this???
Im in shock

Author:  shell_b [ 09 Dec 2011 21:48 ]
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OMG!!! i would be stright into the head teachers office on monday... that is just shocking! Surely that is a case to for school to look into just what the child is seeing/hearing at home.

Author:  toes10 [ 10 Dec 2011 05:43 ]
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i think you need to get more info out out of lilli,
are they shared toilets?
to sit on an actual face would be difficult,he would have to lie down...
when charbs class are at the toilet they are mostly supervised,so i assume it was breaktime he did this.

are you sure you didnt mishear her?

this throws up alot of questions and i would go in to see the teacher,it may well have been boys being boys and being silly,a spur of the moment kind of thing,the games they play at that age are silly.

i would be shocked if it was meant sexually,as its not the age for that kind of thing.

Author:  jess_r_09 [ 10 Dec 2011 08:58 ]
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Omg Emma that is shocking!

I would definitely try to get more out of her if you can. Then go down to the school and speak to the teachers!

I'm in shock for you!

Author:  EMMARED [ 10 Dec 2011 09:02 ]
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Well I told my sister because she is a teacher and she said not to question Lilli anymore, to write down what she said to me then go to the head on Monday, not to tell Lillis teacher but go to head.
I thought Id heard wrong too at first Vicky so I asked again she said he told her to go in the toilet and then asked her to sit on his face!!!

Author:  jess_r_09 [ 10 Dec 2011 09:06 ]
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EMMARED wrote:
Well I told my sister because she is a teacher and she said not to question Lilli anymore, to write down what she said to me then go to the head on Monday, not to tell Lillis teacher but go to head.
I thought Id heard wrong too at first Vicky so I asked again she said he told her to go in the toilet and then asked her to sit on his face!!!


Sounds like a good idea Emma. Probably better that your not pushing her.
Hope your ok.

Author:  toes10 [ 10 Dec 2011 09:13 ]
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well this 5yr old boy must be talked to,i couldnt see charlie or any of his little friends saying anything like that! what a difficult thing to deal with.
i hope the head can help this poor boy.
i hope lilli isnt upset by it all?did she tell you because it worried her?
x

Author:  fiffes [ 10 Dec 2011 20:48 ]
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Def do as your sister suggested. By questioning lilli more it may come accross as you leading her if this is taken further. The head will know how to question Lilli to get the full information out - without leading her answers.
Sounds like there needs to be some more investiation. Personally I would've phoned the school straight after she said it, and not worried about it all weekend. Let them start their investigations straight away on Monday morning.
It is shocking, but also very frightening just exaclty what kids that age pick up on, and/or subjected to in the home. It may well be something innocent he has seen in a cartoon or a joke from home, but could be something much more sinister :(
Good luck
let us know how you get on
xx

Author:  Jaidynsmum [ 12 Dec 2011 13:25 ]
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Can't add anything more! Hope it's not as sinister as it must have sounded hun x

Author:  yummymummy2008 [ 17 Dec 2011 23:01 ]
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shocking but i think your doing the right thing! x

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