my sister is with a guy who drinks a awful lot to point of getting up in morning and drinking vodka (they did split but she went back)
she cant see prob
my prob is she has 3 children oldest 4 youngest coming up for 2
she left him looking after them few weeks back he got wrecked fell asleep
lovely girl next door good mate of mine rang me iam over 1 half hours away to say she had heard baby cryin for over 2 hours and no one answering door
so i was worried sick rang my dad couldnt get hold of my sis who had gone out with girls on the town
he had to break in poor little mite was in a dirty nappy and hungrey
he was out cold on sofa
still my sister see know wrong in him iam really worried about kids

question is do i sayt somethink or let her find out hard way

I would say something as i know if it was me and anythin was to happen to the kids while in his care i would feel so guilty for not saying anything.
hes lucky nothing happened to them when he was passed out drunk.

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I would say something but will she listen??

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no prob not

Something needs to be said, but by the sounds of it she's blind when it comes to this guy. How can she not see that him passing out cold on the sofa was as bad as her leaving the three kids alone in the house? If she's not careful she'll lose them as someone will get social services involved. If her neighbour wwsn't your friend, she'd have probably called the police and those three little ones could be in care right now. Harsh reality I'm afraid.

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I'd go mental at my sister if this was her! The kids should come before any man, and that is no way to treat kids!! Poor little things, makes me so sad!

If paul ever did anything like this he would be straight out the door i'm afraid.

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no i totally agree with u hun getting p**sed off with her

maybe get her on her own with your mum to sit and talk explain that she is lucky the neighbour rang you and not police.let her know you are on her side.is it a possibility she is scared of saying anything to her partner?
but if she honestly doesnt think anything is wrong then you need to make the right decision on who else to contact...harsh i know but what if something really bad were to happen...god forbid.?
thinking of you at this hard time. xxx

I would say something,but its hard when people dont/or wont listen to reason

I hope she sees sense soon hun xx

Maybe you should remind her of the risk of prosecution to her. If she goes out leaving them with him while he's drunk she's guilty of neglect and can be prosecuted for it. If one of the children gets hurt while he's paralytic they will both be liable and the children WILL be taken into care .... is he really more important to her than her own children?

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I know my floor isn't clean enough to eat off, but then.....why would you want to?