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| Author: | Claire20585 [ 12 Oct 2009 15:40 ] |
| Post subject: | cant cope |
Tried 2 bring it up with doc this mornin wen i went 4 an internal (sorry tmi) 2 see why i'm not having periods. She just told me to talk 2 my hv. Spent all day saturday crying didnt even go 2 work. Tried not 2 cuz i dont want how i feel to affect the kids but then i felt like an even worse mother. The flat is a mess cuz i've got no motivation or energy to get up & do it. Hope no1 thinks bad at me but most of last week i felt like walkin under a bus. That dont mean i'm gonna do it my kids aint got no1 but me. I feel worse each day. Dont even have the energy 2 cry 2dy & i'm scared if i start i might drown in the flood. I'm so sick of feeling like this & i dont want 2 emotionally damage my kids iykwim. Monique has been a total nightmare all weekend 2 which hasnt helped at all. I really dont know what 2 do anymore. |
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| Author: | audrey1234 [ 12 Oct 2009 15:47 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: cant cope |
all you can do is try to talk. if your doctor won't help you, change doctors. the doc could put you on anti- depressants. there's always plenty of us on TBW if you need to talk, and we don't know you, and i always find that easier if i don't know the person. |
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| Author: | emma+3 [ 12 Oct 2009 15:50 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: cant cope |
Claire, sweetheart you must talk to someone. I think you should ring Hv right now and tell them what you have told us. If not hv then the surgery There will be someone that is able to help. Just keep talking. |
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| Author: | Sel [ 12 Oct 2009 15:50 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: cant cope |
Claire Hon, ((((HUGS)))). xxx Is there anyone that you trust enough to talk to about how you feel? Maybe you can use them as a 'practice run' before you try to talk to the Doctors about it again. Maybe, you could take someone to the Doctors with you next time for some moral support? Is there anyone who will watch the kids for you and/or help with the housework? Or just lend a shoulder for you to cry on? I don't want to sound like a broken record, but from what you said you sound like you really need to get some therapy Hon. I'm glad you went to the Doctors though, regardless of how it went, you still went. You should be proud of yourself Hon. xxx |
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| Author: | Claire20585 [ 12 Oct 2009 16:22 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: cant cope |
My hv was great but she's been off sick 4 ages & i dont like the hv thats standin in i think she's condescending sp?. I have already changed drs twice in 6months think its the whole trust thats crap tbh. The kids have been with the childminder since 8 will pick them up at 5.30. I feel even worse wen they're not here. & sel no not really all the people i've ever been close 2 ave either died or moved away. Every1 else is only really around wen they want something |
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| Author: | GillianD [ 12 Oct 2009 16:37 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: cant cope |
pm`d you x |
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| Author: | cazw82 [ 12 Oct 2009 18:12 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: cant cope |
Oh Claire I really hope you manage to get some help soon. Well done for taking the step and admitting that things aren't right as it is so hard to even do that x x ........ |
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| Author: | Claire20585 [ 12 Oct 2009 20:33 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: cant cope |
Thanks gillian |
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| Author: | jess_r_09 [ 12 Oct 2009 20:38 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: cant cope |
I really hope that you manage to get the help that you need. Well done for bringing things up with the doctor too, it takes a lot of guts. You've overcome the first hurdle of admitting that things havent been right. I understand that you dont want the kids to see that you are upset either, and that will obviously make things harder for you. Trying to keep things bottled up never works for anybody,Ive been there done that and got the tshirt! Hope you feel better soon hun xx |
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| Author: | beckity [ 12 Oct 2009 20:47 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: cant cope |
We have the most amazing sure start outreach worker in our area, think this would be in her remit, they are attached to Children's centre. You should never think anyone will think badly of you, I currently have a rock bottom opinion of the GP who brushed you off, cos it is really hard to admit your feelings. Hope everyones positive messages helped you feel a little better and not as lonely. |
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