Would Your New Date Make A Good Father?
Everyone has the potential to be a good parent but you have to be ready to learn, compromise and spend plenty of time with your children.
If youíre unsure whether your new date wants children, or whether he would be a good person to introduce to your kids, you need to ask some questions about his personality. Here are some things to think about when considering whether your new date would make a good father.
How Does He Act Around Children?Does he have children of his own already? If he does then does he see them often? Does he put them before his personal life and before romantic relationships? If he doesnít then you should steer clear as he'll probably end up treating any children he has with you the same way.
If your date hasn't got any children of his own, see how he reacts around other peoples. Is he a good uncle? Do children feel comfortable around him? If he enjoys interacting with children then chances are he is thinking of having some of his own.
Is He Close To His Family?
Has He Talked About Having Children?If a man talks a lot about having children, it means that he wants to be the best dad he can be. If he doesnít talk about having children, it probably means heís not ready. Every man is different so you cannot rely on age to determine if heíll be a good dad.
If heís young heíll most likely have a lot of energy, but he may want to spend his time going out with friends. If heís older heís more likely to be financially stable, but he may spend all his time at work instead of investing it into being a good father.
Does He Have A Playful Side?To be a good father you need to have plenty of energy and be ready to come up with lots of ideas to keep your young ones entertained. Is your date an active person who enjoys new things? Does he enjoy silly comedies and childrenís films? Is he good at coming up with spontaneous, fantastic dating ideas for the two of you? Kids get bored easily, so itís important that your man is resourceful and able to use his silly side to entertain.
Is He A Patient and Stable Person?
If heís always there for you and acts in a selfless manner then heíll want to put his children first. Watch out if he is unable to manage his anger, as you donít want your kids to end up frightened and upset by his temper fits.
Itís hard to tell if your new date will be a good father until you get to know him better. However, by observing his behaviour, the way he talks about his family, and the way he acts around children, youíll be able to decide whether you think heís ready and willing to start thinking about having a family and being a great dad.