If you are going to be flying with your baby, then you need to plan for the journey in advance. If your baby is happy before you get on the plane then she is less likely to be crotchety and the whole flying experience will be much less stressful for you as well as her. An unhappy baby at the start of the flight will almost inevitably mean a miserable baby throughout the flight, so the planning should ideally start well before.
A quick phone call to the airline in advance to remind them that you are travelling with an baby or toddler will increase your chances of being allocated a suitable seat. Many airlines offer the seats at the front of a section so that there’s a bit more room for you all to move about in.
You really must try to stay calm and relaxed yourself too. If Mum and Dad are stressed-out, then it can be very upsetting for baby. If everything is planned and you stay chilled then your baby will automatically feel more comfortable. Try and make sure you arrive at the airport early. Ideally you should check in and clear through security in plenty of time so that your stress levels are kept nice and low. There really is nothing worse than battling with crowds at the very last minute and having to run for the boarding gate just before it closes. Make sure you put a clean nappy on your baby just before boarding and make sure too that any feeds, toys or drinks are easy to find in your bag for when you need them.
It's important too to think about your baby's ears! All babies suffer discomfort in their ears when flying. If your baby is fed or at least sucking something during both the ascent and descent, then he will find it more comfortable. The frequent swallowing will help keep him much more comfortable. Even sucking your finger or a dummy will help. Keep baby distracted with food, toys, and your happy smile and he will be less likely to dwell on his own discomfort and will be much happier overall.
Take plenty of your baby’s favourite toys but don't get them all out at once! Bring them out of your 'magic bag' one at a time and make sure one is put away before the next one is brought out.
March 2010 |