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Bonding With Baby New survey reveals new mums are crying out for realistic reassurance New research, released today by Johnson’s Baby, has found that almost one in five (18%) new mums have experienced moments where they’ve felt no bond with their baby. And worryingly, new mums are not sharing their bonding concerns with loved ones; less than half (42%) would share these worries with their partner, just a quarter (23%) would go to their mothers and one in ten new mums (11%) would share their concerns with no one.   Article continues below advertisement   Over three quarters (77%) of mums agree that hearing stories from other new mums about the realities of the bonding process would have been reassuring and almost one third of mums (31%) wish they had been told it’s only natural to be overwhelmed by the pressures of new motherhood. Celebrity mum Melanie Sykes wishes she’d had real-life advice when pregnant: "I was screaming out really to hear another woman telling me her experiences that I could relate to and be able to laugh at. In doing so I'm sure I would have been freed of any pressure or worry I was feeling." “I don’t think there is enough realistic advice out there for new mums. It’s a bit of a bubble and it all seems to be so perfect and chocolate box and that’s not the reality. You don’t often hear about the grim side of it and it’s important to, it keeps you sane.” Almost half (46%) of new mums found the reality of motherhood harder than they expected and one in five (20%) felt they found the experience harder than their friends. New mums cited the following pressures as those which they felt affected the mother-baby bond: • Lack of sleep (41%) • Feeling overwhelmed by the pressures of new motherhood (25%) • Feeling hormonal (24%) • Trying/wanting but not being able to breastfeed (13%) • Missing the freedom they had before (12%) • Going back to work (9%) • Not enough time to spend with baby (9%) May 2008 Back To Our Main News Section What Else Do Mums Say?     8 OUT OF 10 MUMS SAY  Angel Delight And Space Hoppers  It Pays To Talk  No Outdoor Play For Many Children  1 in 5 Parents Don't Read to their Kids  Last-Minute Present Buying  more.... CAR REVIEWS  Chrysler Grand Voyager  Volkswagen Passat Estate  The Volkswagen Caravelle  Toyota Corolla Verso  The Volvo S40  more.... Features  FOOD GLORIOUS FOOD  BABY NAMES  HOTELS AND HOLIDAY REVIEWS  SUMMER  BACK TO SCHOOL  more.... Latest Forum Discussions Teaching your kids manners! what's wrong with giving him a doll? Misleading packaging? How many Children do you have? Is your family complete yet? How much do you spend on shopping per week?? babies and ear piercing Would you sue?  New Mothers Need Time Out  Are We Nealy Stressed Yet?