There are not usually any physical complications after a miscarriage, but it can have a major emotional impact. Both the mother and father can be hugely affected and it is common to feel sad, distressed, angry, shocked, guilty and depressed. It often helps to talk about your feelings with your partner, a friend, a family member or a doctor. This can stop you from feeling isolated and alone, and it will help you come to terms with your loss.
As time goes by your negative feelings should gradually subside. It takes some people longer to feel better than others, but if you are concerned that you can't cope you should speak to your GP.
After a miscarriage, you should stop bleeding within 7-10 days. If the bleeding continues for much longer you should see your GP who can prescribe you a course of antibiotics if you have an infection. You may need to have a minor operation to stop the bleeding.
You should get your next period about six weeks after having a miscarriage. If you want to try to get pregnant again, you should wait until you've had a period. However, it is safe to have sex once the initial bleeding has stopped.
June 2011
Richard Burke's article on the effect of miscarriage on his family can be read here. |